Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Audrea Appleyard with the following comment:
This woman is my x5 Great-Grandmother, give or take a great. I know nothing about her but know a great deal about Ordery and John Gowen. My maternal Grandfather was descended from these people. He was born in Hawera, New Zealand and had a fairly dodgy past. Thanks for allowing me to send a message. I'd love to hear from possible distant relations. Best wishes.